DEFEAT IS NOT FINAL



You are never defeated until defeat is accepted. Temporary defeat is never a permanent defeat.  Defeat is a state of mind. You are quickly defeated by the pressing challenges and size of your problem. We are first defeated from our minds than what is confronting us.
You don’t have to surrender to that temporary defeat challenging you. Don’t accept the cheap lies that there’s nothing you can do to change your situation. There’s always something that you can do. There’s something smart, creative and intelligently that you can to turn things around. The obstacles that seem to be frightening are little compared to the feelings that you attach to it.
Psychologists made us to understand that our feelings control our emotions and our emotions control out thoughts and our thoughts controls our lives. The feelings, thoughts and emotions that you attach to your circumstances empowers or dis-empowers you.
The fact that you have lost or failed is not a reason to remain defeated from trying out. The world is filled with many people who tried to achieve their dreams. They had bright hopes about their future, but when they met with a single failure, they surrendered to defeat and never tried out. Some retreated into their holes and never came out.
Every single act of success or failure requires risk. In the game of life you can’t be neutral. It is  either you are risking to fail or you are risking to succeed. To try again is risk and never to try is a greater risk. In life if you are not taking enough risk to make your dreams come true then your life is at risk.
You must have heard of the old adage, “ No virtue No success.” In spite of your losses , failures and defeat you must be strong and determined to knock off the fear of loss and failure and attempt new grounds and explore new adventures that you have never taken. The comfort zone of self pity and self denial is a limitation to you acceleration and elevation in life. Until you leave your comfort zone you will never realize how far and high you can fly. Dr. Larry Kingsley always says. “ The biggest failure of all is the person that never tries.”
 A single defeat is never final defeat. It is a platform that you can still win if you continue to try. If you try anything for the first, second, third and fourth time. Don’t quit keep trying until you win.
In life as long as you are afraid to move towards your greatest challenge. You will always be at the disadvantage side of  life and never discover your strength, greatness and potential. See impossibilities in your situation. A  temporary defeat shouldn’t blindfold you from seeing the possibilities of overcoming your challenges. It is never impossible to get up, stand up and fight back when life pushes you hard with challenges. Your winning attitude determines your aptitude. There’s nothing that’s impossible to achieve and there’s no challenges that you cannot overcome. Ron Roeth once said, “ What we need is more people who specializes in the impossible.” The impossible are the dark areas that instill and provoke fear in you! Step into the bowl! Take a bold step you have never taken since you were born! The higher your risk, the higher your compensation and higher your promotion.
 Risk is an evidence of greatness and a proof of life. The world is for the risk takers. It is only risk  takers that can alter and change their world. Which you can do as well. Risk creates great opportunities for growth, development, advancement and competitive advantage. Learn more here: www.amazon.com/author/michaelediale

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